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May 09, 2010

Terbebankah GURu-Guru sekarang??





Objectively, teaching has got to be one of the top 5 most stressful careers in the world. In a single hour, we can play many different roles: nurse, babysitter, counselor, administrator, parental doormat, paper pusher, and maybe, if we're lucky, educator.

After my first year of teaching, what surprised me most was the fact that the least of my problems are actually in the classroom dealing with the kids. That's the easy part. The before school, extra classes, and afternoon meetings, not to mention the obnoxious amounts of paperwork, are enough to drive even the sanest teacher to the sanitarium. For these reasons and many more, teaching has the highest degree of career turnover of any profession.

But, how can we quit our complaining and attempt to avoid serious burnout? Try these strategies for avoiding teacher burnout and make concrete improvements in your attitude and outlook in the classroom.

Ask for Help - This is a really hard one for me to do. Often, it seems far easier to just do it myself than to explain how something should be done. Parents, friends, and students can be a valuable time-saving resource in your classroom, but only if you take the time to ask them. With a little planning and time invested up front, you can set up routine times and duties for the people available around you.

Don't Sweat the Small Stuff - This is a big piece of advice that applies in all areas of life. But, in teaching, we really need to put things in perspective. Is any one but you really going to care if the border on that bulletin board is crooked? Do you stage a Broadway-style dramatic production each year for yourself more than anyone else? Let's face it, we're there to teach the children. Some things that don't fall into the teaching/imparting knowledge category just may not be worth a disproportionate amount of time and effort. So, put down those fancy scissors that make the cool edge designs and go back to the essentials. Just something to think about.

Don't Play the Teacher at Home - When I first started student teaching, I was appalled to find that some of my new teacher habits were making their way into my home and marriage. For example, if my wife would do something annoying, I found myself giving her my evil "teacher look." You know which one I mean! Or, I would say something like, "Let's think about our choices." When you're at home, give it up! Don't scold, don't correct, and don't try to be the model of perfection. I've found that many people expect teachers to know everything and do everything perfectly. Don't fall for that trap. You're human so act like it at home. When I lock my classroom door, that's it.

Take Time for Yourself - Watch a stupid sitcom, listen to "un-teachery" music, talk to an old friend on the phone, forget about the papers that need to be graded that evening. Obviously, we can't do these things all the time. But, try not to beat yourself up over it if you do something fun once in awhile. I try to do something purely for pleasure each day. It really does keep me sane. Some nights, I get into bed early so I can read a book for fun. On weekend nights, I watch movies and I don't apologise for it. A little time invested in joyful activities can go a long way towards avoiding serious burnout.

Remember Why You Teach - Look past all of the annoyances and hassles, both big and small, and remember why you became a teacher in the first place. I quit a job in an office. Some days, I do question my sanity. But, most of the time, I just have to think about how useless and uninspired I felt behind that desk, staring at a boring spreadsheet, and I can remember why I teach. I teach in order to make a difference for children and to share myself with the world. Keep your reasons for teaching close to your heart and you'll realise that all of the stress really can be worth it.

After writing all of these anti-burnout tips, I feel a little more relaxed already! I hope you do, too.

5 comments:

smtabi'in said...

meluahkan perasaan ker???hihihih

Siti Mardiana Bt Yaakob said...

meluahkan,berkongsi,minta pandangan..

Rozy said...

salam siti,

i don't agree that teaching has the highest degree of turnover in Malaysia. You should see engineering, many of my friends has resigned and became a teacher. ;-)

just dropping by to say hello!!

smtabi'in said...

Beban tugas/kerja saya fikir bukan hanya golongan cikgu saja. semua orang yang bekerja ada kalanya perlu menanggung beban kerja yang berlebihan. Bukannya setiap masa kan?? Jadi, Persoalannya bukan sama ada terbeban atau tidak, tetapi bagaimana sikap dan cara kita untuk mendepani beban kerja yang meningkat pada masa masa tertentu. hihihih sekadar pandangan...

MiEN bAkRiE said...

anyway masing2 akan kata keje sendiri lbh beban..but d reality...sendiri pikul sendiri tau la mcane rasanya..

for me...ajar bdk lps SPM lg susah..tp tanpa cikgu sekolah...susah gak org yg mcm mien nk ajar yg lepasan sekolah nie...

ape pun thanxs to all teachers...w/out them kita x tau jd apa skg! begitu gak ngan anak2 & generasi kita..